“Recover from Resentment”

We give up on relationships prematurely when we’re toxic with resentment. Forgiveness can seem impossible, but God can help us clear up relationships through forgiveness.

Message Notes

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1 Corinthians 13:4-5b – “Love…is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged.”
Proverbs 15:1 – “A gentle answer deflects anger, but harsh words make tempers flare.”
Proverbs 15:4 – “Gentle words are a tree of life; a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit.”
Proverbs 13:12 – “Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a dream fulfilled is a tree of life.”
Proverbs 14:10 – “Each heart knows its own bitterness, and no one else can share its joy.”
Matthew 6:9, 14-15 – “Pray like this…14 “If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you. 15 But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins.” Jesus
Proverbs 17:9 – “Love prospers when a fault is forgiven, but dwelling on it separates close friends.” NLT, Tyndale

Three Causes of Resentment

1.) What people SAY about us. Proverbs 15:1
2.) When people DECEIVE us. Proverbs 15:4
3.) When people LET US DOWN. Proverbs 13:12

Resentment is NOT LOGICAL, HELPFUL, or HEALTHY. Proverbs 14:10

 Recovering from Resentment

Be honest about the state of your HEART. Matthew 6:9-15
Make a decision to FORGIVE the offender. Proverbs 17:9
When you remember, FORGIVE.

 Next Steps

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– Start learning about Jesus
– Forgive someone who has offended me
– Let go of a grudge I’ve held for awhile
– Memorize a 1 Corinthians 13:4-5b
– Go apologize to someone I offended
– Start serving at Mission Trails Church Mission Valley
– Be baptized as a follower of Jesus
– Join or host a small group
– Place my faith in Jesus & become His follower

 

Referenced previous Message by Rick Warren